Tak pernah ku fahami ertimu padaku
Tak pernah ku mengerti hadirmu untukku
Rasa yang pernah kau bagi
Cinta yang telah kau beri
Setelah ku terjatuh baru ku sedari
Betapa kau kekasih hingga hujung hati
Rasa yang setia menanti
Cinta yang tak akan pergi
Menyesal ku akui tak terima cintamu
Dan kini engkau pergi meninggalkan hidupku
Terlambat ku akui berertinya dirimu
Kerna hanya dirimu sanggup cinta
Penawar peritku
Hanya dirimu
Tulus cintaku...
Menyesal ku akui tak terima cintamu
Dan kini engkau pergi meninggalkan hidupku
Menyesal ku akui tak terima cintamu
Dan kini engkau pergi meninggalkan hidupku
Terlambat ku akui berertinya dirimu
Kerna hanya dirimu
Sanggup cinta penawar peritku
Sanggup cinta pengusap tangisku...
whenever listen to this song, the lyrics remind me of sumone who have a boyfriend and they have been dating for more than two years. she's also one of my good friend. a caring person, warmth, and always there to lend hand to help others. i once remember their relationship started when my friend told him that she had liked him whe she first met him. After wards, they started the relationship.
but there seemed to be sumthing bothering me and eating away my thoughts. i didn't mean to be a busybody or body busy person to anyone's relationship but the reality did happened in front of my eyes several times. she always cry because of him. sometimes, when she feels sad, angry, frust and what not, there's nothing can make her happy except him. but in the back of my head, there's a few questions...does he really care about her feelings? does he really love her the way she loves him?
i know she have always tried to be the best girlfriend she could be. she always praise him, understanding him, being there for him, showered him with compliments about how good looking he is and bring him to wherever place that he wanted to go even at that time, she's in tired, less energy but because of her sincere love, she will fulfill every single wish from him. from my own sight, she's the one who always have to initiate everything in their relationship. it always her to say those words "I LOVE YOU". it always her to text him to tell him "I MISS YOU". it always her who's put aside other things to be with him, and her who cares for his well being. obviously, he never seems to actually do these things on his own without she starting it. when she texted him complimenting about his respond to her feelings, he would just leaving her unsatisfied.
ok, enuff for me to complain. this entry is just for the sake that she's a good friend of mine and most importantly she's a girl who's hoping for sumthing that truly can convince her for a long lasting relationship between them.
to him:
please just show her that you care about her feelings. Not more words of how hot she look, not the kisses on the cheeks, but actually demonstrate that you appreciate her/loves her as much as she appreciate you.
apologies for any hard feelings. changes is good but make sure you change for better.
Treat every relationship ( even its our blood relation.. MOM... Dad...Brother... Sister..)as if it's the last one, then you'll know how to Give.
Treat every moment as if it's the last day, then you'll know how to Treasure.
Treasure what you have right now, or else you may regret one day...:)
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